I've come across some interesting, out-dated, perspectives of women since my recent move to this new and very different city. Religion plays a dominant role in the Lives of many people here and although I myself am not religious, I have respect for these people who value their Faith so strongly.
This being said, the religion of some I've encountered has acted as a catalyst for some very powerful statements regarding the position of women in today's society. Since I have been here I have either been told directly or been privy to comments such as the following:
"If you share a bed with him now, he'll never marry you"... to which I say I'm not looking to get married any time soon, but thanks! *cue fake smile*
"Why would he marry you when he gets it for free" (a.k.a. "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free")... to which I say Why buy the pig when you get the sausage for free *cue real smile*
"I would never tell a man that I know more than him"... to which my jaw drops.
I've been thinking about the last statement again and again and I'm still shocked by it... this is 2010; I am proud to be a woman, I'm proud of the successes of all women and I'm proud of my successes and the knowledge that I've acquired over the years.
To all the Brilliant, Fierce, Fabulous, Independant Women out there: stand tall and never allow someone to make you feel like a second class citizen. We are Wonder Women! <3
1 comment:
It indeed is interesting of how society influences thought in a certain region, especially how it's 2010 now.
Great blog, Misty... you go, WOMAN!
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